I hate my friends....

Jessica · #1 26th Sep 02, 06:52 AM

Some of you might remember my post a while back....about how i was just really sad ...

ugh...well..i nthat post i posted about a friend i wanted to reconnect with, Christina. Mistake #1.
And i told her soemthing in confidence.....Mistake #2.

So now....all this stuff about me is going around my old group of friends. Stuff I didnt want to let out and stuff thats just not true. I should've known. I'm sooo stupid. And of course, these peope eat it up and tell others....they all know where I live....my phone #....why can't they just come to me and ask 'hey.....i heard _blah blah_...whatsu p?" so i can set them straight....

. Why do people start sh*t like that? Whats the poitn?!? If she wanted to hurt me...she did. I should've known. I stopped dealign with them for a reason...and now..i remember why. I'm so stupid

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I thought, once you get out of high school...people change. Obviously, I'm the only one that did.

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...where's a crying smilie when u need one

..crying smily..is than an oxymoron?

BigHead50 · #2 26th Sep 02, 09:16 AM

Hello Jessica

I know how you feel, I can Not understand why some people have to talk down others who are there friends...

It seems the older I get the more Ungratful and Rude people seem to get...

I do not have hardly any friends for the Same reason as the problems you are having, I guess people just don't have time to have a concience or Heart any more....

Hang in there, and Know that there still are True people that care and respect others, even though they are harder and harder to find.....

SeeYa

Stringent · #3 26th Sep 02, 10:12 AM

Thats really bad. There are those who are your friends just for friends sake, but you don't trust them, then there are those whom you can trust. Its the ones you can trust who are the real friends.

I think you should sift out those who you can trust and those you cant.

But I hate it when people do that. If they confide in me, I don't go blabbing it around. Thats whats friendship is about.

Beta Spanky · #4 26th Sep 02, 02:13 PM

Well, the best reason I can give that a person, you thought was a friend, would start spreading stuff about you.

The first and foremost reason would be because this person is actually jealous of you and what you have compared to themselves. In essence what they are doing is trying to bring you down to their level so they don't feel so inferior.

The best advice I can give you is to be like a duck and let it just roll off your back. I know that is easier said than done, but like you said, you are out of high school now and there should be more important things to worry about than a SO CALLED friend and the rumors they are spreading about you.

You have to face a fact that no matter what you do, or how old you are, people will always talk about other people.

A very good rule of thumb that I follow and practice is, if it is something that I can not directly control, I don't worry about it. One of the worst things in life you can do is worry about the things you can't control. This will do nothing but stress you to the breaking point, because you will never be able to change it.

So just move on to bigger and better things, and enjoy life with people that are willing to enjoy it with you, not at your expense.

just_do_IT · #5 26th Sep 02, 06:44 PM

hello Jessica,

People are just plain cruel sometimes. But keep your head up, you sound to me like the type of person that will rise above and move on

Menace Inc · #6 26th Sep 02, 07:04 PM

Sorry to hear the bad things happened to you. I agree with Beta Spanky, don't let that bother you for too long. There are other better things in life.