I found a "sollution",
since I'm dualbooting with WinXPsp2, I pulled the driver from there, both the .sys and the .inf file,
and copied them into the \drivers and \inf folder of Vista.
Then when I installed the PCMCIA card again, it looked for the drivers, and found the XP ones,
and I was online
Next thing to do, was to activate, and check for updates
I then found a Vista update to my Orinoco card, and updated it, still no problems