@war59312 - I'm so sorry to hear that.
I'll pray for all affect.
If it helps, notice that in my first post of this thread I never said I had a GREAT Thanksgiving even though I posted late in the evening. Why was that? Because I was home sick with the flu and running a fever all Thanksgiving. Abby, our youngest daughter stayed home with me
while my wife and our other kids were staying overnight at a hotel with an indoor waterpark.
Life don't always seem fair, but how you deal with it is what counts.