[war59312]

Hey,

I personally use NetServer:

http://netserver.hugosoft.net/

Comes with everything you asked for, but asp.

There is an asp extenstion some where but I've heard its pretty hard to setup and its slow compared to IIS.

Well here is mine for example:

http://war59312.servebeer.com/bt/

And yes as u can see running though no-ip.com as well.

Instant message me and I'll walk you though everything.