I totally agree with you, i've been married for just over a year now and me and my wife have been a couple sinse a little after high school as well. My wifes car has almost 100k miles on it, and my car has 111k miles on it and my car has a bum engine it smokes and squeals all the time! I dont want to collect money that I dont need, I just need help with providing, for diapers, and wipes, i'm married so I'm not trying to collect more. I just need help.
I do have a problem with people that collect more, as well as people that have a handicape sticker and aren't handicaped, and people that come in a resturant and eat 100$ of food and wont leave but a 2$ tip for the waitor!
We surely wont be living high on a hog at all, our ends wont meet unless I get a better 2nd job or another job (3rd job). I was a network admin in the army for 2 years, and now i'm washed up and can't get a decent job doing what I love. but sometimes that is the way the ball bounces! I just know God has a better plan for me somewhere in time, and I hope its soon, or that my eyes are opened and relief comes after the baby gets here!
oh yah, I just add oil to my car when it burns most of it off through the tail pipe, i add more!
Its not that I dont work, I push 60+ hours a week and i would like to see my wife some, after all your still newly wedds until you die right? at least thats how I would like to look at it, even though my wife dont see it that way!
~PCTech