Thank you all for thoughts on this subject and to be honest I have to agree with both sides.
@ MinnesotaKid yes i agree with what you are saying , as to the `family Forum`. I did a search and what was said was 'family friendly' link :
http://www.betaone.net/forums/index....80ca156e8b7cba.
So I got that a bit wrong , sorry.
And as usual belthazor comes along as of breath of fresh air and sums it all up nicely.
:P
maybe i'll try not to worry about "does this offend this group or that group to much " and just worry about what bugs me.
Thanks everyone.
Stumuzz.